Going on a wild goose chase trying to join a big party pay group the iinks don't take me ware I need to go need party pay for dummies so I can may be figure it out
You will need to activate your account first before you can use the party pay name you want to join.
Welcome to Visible.
When brand new to Visible, this can all seem a bit confusing.
JustDoIt's reply is correct. Additionally, I explain the process for not only joining a party, but also making the most of "refer a friend" codes, here. I hope this helps.
I wish you well.